Donny and Belle, Nagsalita na sa Wakas!
What’s up? What’s up? What’s up? What’s up, GB GB girls, VG and for today’s video, it turns out that the morning starts right after climax. So there you have it, ladies and Chumen, we are inside a car. We’re on a joy ride here too. The lead stars of Tayo are finally with us.
Don Bell Don Pangl Barg you look at the camera, just you. He’s even taking your hand off the steering wheel. We’re going on a road trip to Batangas today. Wow. Huh? There are still many with us. Let’s just go around here. You can go away. You don’t know I’m driving. So we don’t know what will really happen today.
Just talk about it, we’ll get in the car and the driver will take care of it . Yes, sir. Well anyway. You’ve had your car for a long time. Ah yeah, like a year. A year and a half. 2 years. It’s still brand new . Yes. A bit like that. You, Bell, only know how to drive in the village. Oh really? Aren’t you going out? If so. But I’m scared.
I’m afraid of something in the car. Bye, you think I have road rage. Is he really the one with road rage? He’s terrible on the road . Because it’s really different to drive naked. I can drive when needed, but I didn’t learn to drive my grandfather’s 16 cars. So Vice, what kind of car are you capable of driving? Oh, I can drive a jeep.
Wow. Seriously? Wow. Yes. There are scenes where I’m driving a jeep, a big vehicle. Wow. But you never drive casually. Just you. Back in the early seasons of Showtime, I was the only one driving. Then then of course it’s not quite perfect yet . There are many completely. The amount of luggage. It’s over too. Not anymore.
How long have you known each other as a love team? We started working together in 2019 but hey So I’m like Bell, I’m shy. I was very shy at that time. Now that face has grown fat . The face is just thick. What was your impression of Doni the first time you saw him? What a shame.
It seems difficult to talk about it. Stuck. So are you interested when you’re being so nice and looking good, it seems like you’re interested. It seems like he had a hard time being friends at first. But of course I looked handsome. I said, “Oh, the handsome boy .” Of course I’m handsome. But what, I said it’s hard to talk to him.
What is your impression of Belle? Besides, he is a liar. We don’t talk much. So what I did was add him to ML. Come on. So that’s where we can play and that’s where we can have I don’t know. Your team is just not good enough to interact with me. Jumin, jumoin, he’s the one who first ML, he’s just good at it, he knows how to use me, so you’re better than him, yes, he’s not good at mage.
You’re better because you played. What they’re doing is throwing me at the enemy. So the enemy will come to me. You’re getting rid of them, they’re all coming to us. So we will kill. But he’s the one who seems kind to us. I’m from here, right? I’m a gentleman, I said, this guy is stubborn. But you don’t remember when he first rode.
The one who was riding, what was the one who had something that you actually put him in the car with? Just two. How many times? Yeah, I picked her up. We drove to Antipolo. Yes, Antipolo. There’s a spot in Antipolo that’s so beautiful that we went on a road trip there. It’s like this. Oh, that’s so emotional. What is this called? Yes.
Stage because of course you picked him up too, you’re going to Antipolo. You are going to a romantic scene. There are people who know that ML is there again. I brought my golf clubs with me, so when I was there, you hit him. I like to practice anywhere. There was a lot of grass like it was a jungle so I just took out the clubs and started but there was no food.
What are you doing, what is he doing? I’ve already watched it, there’s nothing I can do. Spectator. Oh, that’s great. You’re so good because I can’t do anything. But we always go on food trips. There we go on your trip. Food trip. A food tripod, really. We’ll look for a spot or coffee. When there are only two of you in the car, do you hold hands? I didn’t do that.
Wow! Woman, why are you doing that to me? Stop me. No. But I’m scared when he drives because sometimes he runs away. They will believe that I drive badly. Hey, no. You’re a safe driver but sometimes you drive too fast. But I’m also fed up with running slowly. Or not? Or will you be able to do that? I was running faster than the car was going.
So you’re safe but at least you’re fast. Mmm. I am safe. I don’t know what he’s saying. You are safe. I’m not saying no to anything. Then this is Vice, if I get yelled at or something, I just stay calm . He is terrible. I tried to pull over but he wouldn’t roll down the window. But inside, it’s really hard to drive.
Not wise. Where do I get a license? That works. There is so much to say. Do I have a license? I don’t have a license. On the road, when you’re the dangerous one, he’ll just barely get off, you’d think he’d be a grown man if he got off like that. Oh, sorry, sorry. But you guys already fought in the car, it seems like you won’t let me ride in the car if we fight.
I don’t know actually. What do you do when you’re whispering to each other and then you’re in a car together? Play music. I’m like that, I’m just trying to calm down, not calm down first, the one that seems to be emotional, because the one that pretends to have a problem, he wants some time off first, just a bit, a bit of a breather, I’m like, what’s the point? It’s a bit confrontational, not for me, maybe it’s the emotions that are talking, so I want us to just, you know, calm down a bit and then when our mindset is in the right
place, let’s talk again. But this is because he wants to talk about it. Or I have something like that which is I learned that is what girls are like, are they confrontational like that but I learned that okay because I might say something wrong and then it gets messy ‘ that’s what gets messy because one wants you to be quiet and the other wants to talk and want to settle the issue right away but I’ve learned that those times I really would say sh stop Ah, let’s just calm down.
Calm down first. Take a breath. Time off. Time off. Pause. Pause. That’s my favorite word. Pause. Pause. When you stop, you get annoyed. Yes. I’ll say, “Don’t you care about what I feel? You’re really gonna make me dwell on this feeling.” That’s right. I said, “Hey, hurry up, right? You could say it’s a fight.
It’s just your mother’s fault. What’s the problem? It’s all about art.” No. It’s funny when we fight. Our conversation is becoming formal. I don’t know. It seems like it would be easier to translate, let’s just exit at random and then when that’s the situation, your pace gets even faster .
No or you stop, there’s a scene like that among you. Stop the car. Stop the car overon there is something. Pull over next, there really is. What year is that? 20 23. Okay. Where are you? Where are you driving? There in Antipolo. Okay. He actually said, “Stop the car.” Yes, stop the car. I want to get down. I don’t want to .
He said he would walk home. I said, “Wow! Ah, you’re serious, right?” Hey, I can do that. Why? It’s so far away. Why? What’s the issue? Why is that? Is it possible? I know it happened, okay? Do you know that? Your story, but this is not it. Of course, when is that? When was that? I just remember it was the fields that were green, but is that where it is? Maybe later it will be different .
Another girl. You are terrible. No, I don’t know. Do you have those times when you feel like there’s another girl with another girl? Not at all. I’m just an overthinker. Yes. So, are you thinking about that? A I assumed but nothing. You are aware. He’s thinking about you, maybe with another girl. Yes.
That’s why we used to fight . Or not all of those reasons are really mine. But wait, that issue of stopping the car, what are you fighting about? As I recall, we came from a party . We fought because I said, “My God, I didn’t I didn’t enjoy.” I took out my anger on him. He said he didn’t enjoy it. I said, “Why are we all so happy?” He said, “No, I wasn’t fun.
” It seems like that. Like, why did the car stop? Because it’s like I’m just obsessed with him. It seems like you’re ignoring me . Your attention is just on someone else . Oh, that night. So before you even get in the car, you’re already annoyed. Sorry. Sorry. Because you feel like you’ve been left out of the party. M.
Then I said stop the car. If you don’t pay attention to me, let’s stop this. So did you stop the car? No. No. Not either. How is that? Shouting or yelling to stop the car. Stop the car. Just firmer. Stop the car like that. It’s not the stop. What did you do? Okay, just drive. No.
Am I really going to open the door ? I won’t open it. I will scare him. Openable. What should I do? The event is over. There’s nothing we can do. No more. There’s nothing wrong with that because sometimes I get dramatic, but sometimes that’s the point . Sometimes, not all the time. Sometimes. But Belinda is happy. Don’t change.
Look at me vi. That’s a game. Do anything. Don’t change. So what did you do? You didn’t stop the car. How did you make him happy? Before you go down there, let’s talk to make sure it’s safe and nothing happens . Need to think. What is that instance on the grass? What is that? What are you doing on the lawn? No, I just remember that there was a time when the round roads going down Antipolo seemed like you said that too . That’s the one that stopped the car. Stop the car.
Hey, not really. Not really. You really promise. Nothing really. Not at all. We don’t fight in the car. That’s my advice for couples, there’s always that stop the car moment. Just don’t drive. Just common sense. Just walk so you don’t fight while you’re walking. Get the car.
Just get the car. No one stopped the car. I’ll get the car. But I don’t recall times that we really fought like a big fight in the car. I do n’t think so. Yeah, I don’t think so. Nothing. Mm. There’s no point in crying in the car. That’s it. Oh, you cried there at Stop the car. Mm, because he doesn’t pay attention to me.
Because sometimes it seems like I only want to talk to him when he’s already toned down. But I think his behavior is like he’s pretending. It seems like he’s still annoyed that I won’t talk to you. That’s right. Buuse I’d rather have that than me. It’s like I’m getting super emotional, especially when I’m driving, but I just don’t want it to escalate any further.
But what is that , it’s really very important. Respect for the partner’s pace and silence is necessary . Mm. Because when you followed that, how did it spiral? You’re both going crazy. You’re both going to explode. Both will explode. Are you and Ay driving? Like just the two of you? Really? Where are you? Usually, who is he, brother? He gets very angry when it’s his turn to be the one who is being watched.
Don’t go out . He would come out and come out with a camera, a camera when that happened, he would back off, where were you guys? Usually, nothing happened, just left the house. There was one instance when we really got into a fight and then we talked. After we talked, we said let’s go out. Or I want to drive.
I told him you said he doesn’t drive. He also drives, but most of the time we have a driver. But when the opportunity arises, I say, let’s get in the car and drive . T’s just riding on the coat. We’re just going around and around. There’s no crying about when the issue will be over. When we settled down and cried, it felt like a release. No.
But it’s a very beautiful noun . Sometimes you need to think about nothing, even if you two just drive and do nothing. Just feel you don’t need to talk. Yes. That was very much needed with no plans. Just your company. Mm. ‘Right? But he doesn’t like me driving because I’m too lazy to drive. Yes. Are you serious? Vargas.
No gay man wants to ride with me. I think I’d like to see that. A non-bargain horse. It’s really my money, what you’re doing to me like that, I’ve always done it before. Especially when the gays are sleeping . When I’m being put to sleep, I’m really tripping. It’s fun. Me too. That’s how I drive too. That’s how I drive.
The fun. Why are you putting me to sleep? I’m driving you. That’s right. Especially when I’m with my cousins and we’re going on a road trip. They’re sleeping . I say, “There are ants.” I’m Pim to others, I did it to me . Then when they go to sleep, I’ll suddenly turn on the car stereo really loud to startle them.
When suddenly I’m going to hit you, my victim is always the song I feel good , is that the beginning of the gay thing? What are you two doing or things about you that you don’t really like or don’t like very much, but you just let it go and then you understand that golf is golf, because I don’t know how to play golf, so I’m just there.
What time is the go? What am I going to do with 4 hours? Like 9 hours, if you’re not interested, I’m just sitting there waiting for the one who got the caddy. What do you need? Do you know Bell’s favorite ? Or balloons. Do you have cash, Vice? Why would you ask for cash? Really? Seriously, promise.
That’s a big favorite. Hello boss. You can buy it at Likodit. So I only bought it once, so we can have traffic. How is that possible? I don’t have any money here. Why do you love balloons? I don’t know about that. What kind of balloons? Does n’t it just seem like your inner child is being healed? It looks like Vice will make you want to get a haircut.
Let’s go ahead . Do you want some crackers? That’s your favorite too . That’s your favorite. Do you like calamari? Let’s eat here first. We are nothing. We can, we I don’t have anyone to pay. kiss me, just let’s eat, I have a partner, he really made me a child, I only bought a balloon once, how come I’m sneezing at the balloon, boy, because he said you guys are going to buy balloons because Bell’s favorite but Bell said I don’t like balloons, how come I really like balloons, boss, he said Bell will choose balloons because
Bell likes balloons, Bell went crazy because Bell said I don’t like balloons, you like them, brother, he doesn’t even want to say it, he’s shy, he’s shy because we don’t want to get married, okay, while we’re eating here, brother, what do you call this, I like chili, dynamite, dynamite, something, I like dynamite, what do you like or the hammer, you like that hammer too, what should we do, hammer, you like balloons, you’re in the balloon grab, do you like the minion cut, yes, this is what I want, maybe you can do that too. Buy
valuation first. This will eat me. I want your dynamite because Bell’s favorite is the clucking bell. Your favorite is the quack. That’s true. That’s what he wants because when I disappear, he sees me. What did Don borrow a balloon from earlier? He didn’t put a balloon on me. He didn’t tie you down .
He said he didn’t put me in This is just the story about balloon defense. Or we went to Zamboanga because I like the illuminated balloons like that in the plaza. Yes. We went down there. We saw your balloon. I was so happy, but I gave the balloon to the child so he thought he wanted a balloon because of that scene.
It ‘s hot, bro. You put it in the juice like you put a yellow so we suddenly came here, what place did you mention as the driver? Should we be Marilaw now? Marilao, aren’t we Marilawon? Okay, thank you very much, thank you very much, bye to anyone who wants to help you, brother. Thank you, brother. We bought some, the big one has change, later when they don’t have it, I’ll give it back to you.
Bye, brother. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You know what’s good about dynamite, this is the stem. You should eat it. This is the tastiest because it’s what the vendor is holding. I said earlier that it’s delicious without the vinegar now because the one holding the vinegar scoop is the one I’m holding.
It’s better than sweat. min it’s nice to eat things like that there’s a little dirt there’s some things there there’s germs that are good for the body and for some reason it’s really good in restaurants like that Belle doesn’t enjoy what’s going on but she joins you every now and there because she supports you you what’s up you don’t really trip but you’ll do it for her I was so shocked at myself, we did our nails as I cleaned up and then you wanted to paint my nails.
Not But it’s okay. The experience is different. I appreciated the experience. Your hands are clean. That’s why it’s fun. I’m happy for the support even though he’s no longer part of your values. Mm. Go ahead, strip it. Okay. For him too. It’s also for him because you can see that the kukom has eyebrows .
What was that, you agreed there but what you fought about was that you were forced to go but you didn’t really bet because you did n’t feel it or bet, you two got annoyed, it’s like you made up the scenario, I don’t know if there’s like that, you do n’t think about it, I was thinking because Ayon and I used to be so supportive that sometimes I would take him to the party, then at the beginning he offered to go with me, then I could see he really didn’t enjoy it.
So when I’m enjoying him, I lose the mood. Then sometimes when he asks, “Oh, are you not in the mood?” Well, I’m not in the mood. We teach that. Because I don’t feel like I can force him if he doesn’t want to. I don’t know him. I remembered golf because I remember we were in San Francisco and he played golf. Very cold. I’m wearing shorts.
You know, I’m so tired of working out. I said, “What am I going to do here?” I really went home alone. You left him in Yes, of course. You left him. The walkout was so cold. You guys already have that scene, walkouts ex. I didn’t tell him. You know, before we would, that’s why we used to fight because we were still immature before.
When we would have petty fights that’s why we agreed that we shouldn’t walk out. What used to happen when there were petty fights? Each one has its own unique personality . So you guys talked about it, or if there’s a scene like this, no one will walk out . In a scene like this, I’ll just keep quiet, so don’t force me.
There is such a thing. Are you talking? Yes. Besides, it shouldn’t ruin work. We don’t want to bring it to work. Is it difficult? Go ahead and take it with you. The difficulty is a noun. But what is that, ‘ in a relationship’? It’s really like that. There are things you really have to swallow, like when it’s not you, but sometimes you adjust, you can adjust, but not all the time. It’s all about you.
Yes. 100%. That’s why they’ll see that a lot in this movie. Actually, that’s one of the biggest themes. is growing together but also growing apart. And besides, it’s nice when you both enjoy being together, but you also need to embrace the idea that sometimes it’s okay for him to be the one enjoying it. Sacrifice.
Then next time, it’s your turn to enjoy it. He’s just the one who supports. Yeah, that’s what we do in the house. You know, my mom loves going on dates with us or bonding, but what she wants to do is what we want to do because she knows that when she sees us happy, that’s like fulfillment for her. So that idea is very selfless.
So I think I also got the idea that maybe sometimes love is also about enjoying what other people want to enjoy. Not just what you want and allowing yourself to immerse. Because sometimes you get annoyed and then it’s not, why is it that he really likes what he’s doing? Why can’t he let go of this thing we’re always fighting about? He knows I’m not going to bet on this, but he’s doing it.
Sometimes you have to try to get into his world and understand it . It’s not a bad idea to try it once or go along and see why he enjoys it. Yes. Do n’t you realize that you can learn to enjoy it? I also enjoy playing golf. I also play golf by myself now. Yes. So, did you enjoy the balloons ? I really laughed out loud at that balloon.
Come on. Where is my balloon? Where is the balloon you gave him? Remembered. That’s really correct. My brother was really hit on us, we forgot you’re sensitive about that, it’s not sensitive, but it seems like sometimes it’s also funny, it’s sad, sometimes where’s the balloon, hey, help me with the balloon, I can’t do it, sister, I’ll just hold the other one in the car, sorry , our fight is still going on, it seems like it’s even worse when I say it, Vice, that’s Bell’s favorite, yes, you’re really serious,
he’ll stop even if he causes traffic, he’ll find a way where he can stop to buy it because he believes Bell will be happy here, because I remember his reaction in Zamboanga, but that’s why I fell for that, because it’s like, but you threw away the widow, you, what did Don, Donny do, he gave me something, it was simple, but he felt, you felt it was special, so you gave it to him, but it was simple, then he lost it or he doesn’t know where he put it, it’s like he didn’t give it importance, how would you feel, he’ll be sad,
of course, I’ll be sad, but I’ll try to retrieve it I’ll try to retrieve it. Did you remember the first simple but special gift you gave him? There are memorable things from the first time we would. Those are the letters that we give you. I remember he gave me this box. It said, ” Think of it as a gift.
” Then I put the letters in there. What gift would you clip to the end? He gave my Barney a CD. My favorite Barney growing up. I’m watching Barney T’s and I’m looking for an original Barney CD. He looked for me. Okay. It’s still there for me to this day. Yes. Even the one who gave him a bracelet . more than the letters.
The letters are still with me. Everything’s still with me really. I still keep it. Yes. Same. There’s this cross that she gave me that I still sometimes put in my car or in my bag. Because it’s a reminder, you know, God’s with you wherever you go. It’s a wooden cross. How can iron be a gift? Not often but it’s common.
Do you know that? The stitch. Mm. You can really see the effort. F Like there was a time when we barely talked anymore because when I arrived he was already asleep because he sleeps early and then he would wake up at 4:00 and I was just about to go to bed so I said it seemed like we had been talking for a while because I was shooting and we didn’t really see each other, we just met during showtime.
I wrote to him in a letter on scratch paper. Then the following day he also posted it, he also wrote me a simple letter, you know. Then I was surprised one time, when I came home, his famous piece was on the two side tables by our bed. Oh, how sweet. That’s how his gifts to me were. Thoughtful. Really thought about it.
Rare but explosive. That’s why it’s so nice when you know that they took time to do it. Because that’s something you can’t ever buy. Correct. No money in the world can buy you that effort. That effort, huh? And then what really makes you fall in love with people? It’s okay, even in the middle of your relationship, you still have a lot of first experiences with him. Mm.
Mm. The first time I rode a motorcycle. Mm. Him. Wow. Wow. It was my first helmet I bought. They say that when you’re in a long-term couple, they say it’s like the spark is missing. But it seems like you guys keep the spark. Because I pray for it every day. Yes. I always say, Lord, this is it, please.
I said I can’t take it anymore, after this, I’ll cry again, then wait again, then meet again, then guess again, gamble again. I can’t seem to do it anymore . So I said, “Lord, I’m okay here.” What were your firsts there? Hey, this is the first time I’ve received a handwritten letter from him because I thought like I thought Shivalry was dead.
The style is different, right? But the old school one is delicious. Yes. So, it’s my first time receiving a handwritten letter. What else? Is this your first time abroad in the US? Yeah, it’s my first time abroad. First time going to the US with him. Then we just went jogging and then we just bought a bagel. So I’ve also experienced a lot that you don’t experience with others.
You only really experienced it with him. What about you, what about your first time, who was so happy with his experience on a motorcycle? That was the same for the first time. There I climbed onto his motorbike. That’s the first time. Scuba diving. It’s my first time scuba diving. It’s like when we do little things like that, we overcome the, let’s say, sold doubt that it’s just the two of us at Araneta.
Do you know that? Yes. Of course, we really are privileged to have experienced that. But whenever it’s just like the things that other people are like, does it seem like a very big deal? Those things are a big deal. This is the first time I’ve experienced something like a partner inviting me to pray. Yes, let’s. Yes.
Then when things start to get good , that’s it. Yes. It seems like Kuya actually answered . Is that what we’re doing? It became so deep that it was like a foundation between Belinda and me because we started out as friends, really friends. And I think that’s why we really cherish what we have. Because at the end of the day, we’ve really gone through so much.
We’ve gone through all the ups and downs by. Um, it’s been a roller coaster ride for the two of us. And we’re just really happy that I think this is the healthiest where our foundation is in right now. Because when we go through even like filming and stuff or even offset it’s like I don’t know. I just feel like we’re on the same wavelength.
You know that’s like… And then I feel like what I’m saying is lighthearted. Yes. It’s so easy. It’s so nice to have your relationship and then your partner. It’s really easy, isn’t it? It’s more beautiful, more healing, more inspiring. Yes. Inspiring. You’re more motivated to work. Okay. When it’s light. Yes. You feel more comfortable talking to him.
Yes. You feel more comfortable eating with him. Mm. That’s where you’ll feel what it’s like when you’re burdened by each other. The energy is not good when you eat together. Besides, it seems like you also feel that things are changing when you look in the mirror, and you don’t recognize yourself anymore. Yes.
Is it still like this? Is this still who I want to be? Do you love the version you are now? Yes. Like or is this the type of relationship that Yeah. I see myself in 10 years from now or not? Is that what it’s like? And then when you stop looking at yourself in the mirror for a long time, you’ll say you’ll see the sadness in the image I see, not happiness.
Have you felt that? Yes. Many times before. I’m just about to cry. Even simple boys have a lot of questions, look in the mirror like that. It’s frustrating when things like that happen. Of course, it’s normal for them to laugh at me when they see me, even if it’s Derby, when I’m playing.
But when there are questions like that I stop myself because if you look at yourself, what are you going to say to young Vice? Yes. I cried because I could see the sadness in the image I was seeing. So if Vice saw that version of the child, what would he say? Oh, he’s happy. She is happy for him. Okay. He said I’m happy for you at last.
Yes. And last long. What does that mean? I’ve seen you so bored and sad for a long time. You feel sorry for yourself. It’s so sad to feel that when you look at yourself, you feel sorry for yourself. Especially when it comes to love. It’s so much, it feels like I’m already looking like a loser. Yes.
There’s nothing you can do. You’ll swallow it. There are so many reasons. Why do you let yourself look so miserable? When you thought you still loved him or you thought you’d never see anyone like him or you were afraid of being alone again. It’s a scary thing though. Yes.
Because what if all you’re looking for is companionship? Not the real partner you’ll love? Companionship in relationship. panghapan ‘ ba iyung do I still love you or I’m just too scared to be lonely and alone because it’s comfortable because you’re used to it because iun iyung you’re scared of the thought of being alone. That’s why for me it takes maturity both ways e.
One, to leave a relationship uh right away that takes a lot of maturity because you know it’s not right for you. But it also takes a lot of maturity to leave a relationship that’s been going on for so long. Those long-term things are already there. It’s almost like you’ve met the family. It seems like you’re set.
You’ve given so much that you feel like you won’t give it to others. And then you have the thought, what’s next? Is there anything else that can be experienced in life after this? Oh my god. We saw a mountain. That mountain. Let’s go to the mountain. Don. Where have you been? Why is there a mountain? Is it too far? What place is this? Why do I have I see mountains? And the mountain is so close to us.
But you know, so that Don can style me so that when he drives to your rocket but stays away from the conversation, let’s just go around so that you won’t have a hard time going to your rocket because I’ll have a hard time going home but it seems like I’m far away today we’re in Del Monte, it’s far from me, it’s funny, welcome, that’s why he’s in a good mood.
I asked him earlier what was your winaze, he said there’s nothing, you really winze, Han , you’re not going to know where we are, where are we now, where are we [squeaking] so you’re screaming, we’re asking where we are. Where are we? Luzon, please. Luzon, what is that, the middle of Luzon . What place is Luzon? Bulacan.
They don’t know. Or just next time. They’re also missing I think they’re flirts, I’m not looking for them, Jose, oh, Sanose, Sanose del Monte, are you going to Sanose del Monte, where the smoke is I was a victim the other day, I went to Bulacan, so next time you’ll be the one to drive, because there’s a mountain anyway, so let’s talk about red flags, when do you accept a red flag, because of course, no one is perfect, right? Do you all believe that all people have red flags? Of course. The one who doesn’t say
where he’s going. Do you consider that a red flag? Yes. For me. Unless he has a surprise for me. But of course like I don’t need to know where you are 247. I just need to know if you’re okay or you’re safe. That’s how he is. But maybe that’s a more forgivable red flag. What was the red flu that happened? Stop it.
If he breaks my trust, I don’t want it anymore. In some way, maybe he’s cheating or he’s rude to me. That’s right, there’s still no need for respect. Okay, he cheated, but with respect, it’s impossible. Ha because I respect you so much. I’m cheating. I’ll be back. That’s not cheating. Maybe the things that you can work on still together.
It’s not like the one who rants, is that a red flag for you, complaining when there’s no place like if you don’t read the room, you suddenly say things that don’t seem right at the moment, maybe that’s kind of a grumpy person who’s always grumpy, so it seems like you’re always having issues and being fixed. I don’t like because guess having to guess what’s wrong so it’s kind of a red flag.
Um, now I’m guessing what’s wrong, why did you stop? Oh yes, there was no stopping because he was so engaged with the chicken that he even stopped on the road for no reason. I don’t want to stop my heart. But do you believe that’s why you’re letting go because of the red flag? What’s that? There are many reasons why people stop things.
Is he under the weight of a red flag or is it the depth of your feelings for the person? Because for others, the noun is a red flag, but because you love the person so much, you try to understand, “dear.” You are going blind. They say, “What do you look like with rose colored glasses?” So you can’t see everything red because what you see is already red.
But you see, you are aware but you are trying to understand him. Right. Well, because now I’m um let’s say I was about to get into a relationship and maybe having gone through also you know what we’ve gone through, I prefer to first discuss the new things before entering into a relationship, like you should first discuss the things you already have, the things that um maybe you don’t like in a person or what you’re looking for in a person, your priorities, your goals, like you should discuss all of that before you enter. So you kind of have an idea of
what his red flags are or what are the things I don’t like or like about him and of course there’s the face that you’re not right away. So I think that’s where you have to find out also if it’s still worth pursuing. Well, I think the problem is we get so impatient sometimes to get into a relationship that we’re just surprised when we’re already there that it all comes out.
So I think it’s super important to also get to know the person if you really like what we’re talking about. He doesn’t seem easy to talk to. Are there green or red flags? What is he like? You only know that from your observation of him when you spend time with him. You know each other without talking about it. Little by little, as you discover him, you also discover yourself.
What is okay? What can you do and what can’t you do? I really like flirting in the Philippines because it’s not very popular abroad. So that’s what you flirt with first. Get to know the parents, that’s what it’s like to really know if you guys are compatible for each other. Sometimes in the states, well not just in the states but you know in different countries, the speed is different. The speed of events.
You’ll be surprised that they’re not in sync. Why did you flirt with P? Come on! Oh, what’s up with you guys? Did you enjoy your courtship with B? Your hair was so long earlier. But what a great effort I made, right? Yes. I think I think I gave it. Yes. Yes. That’s all I can say, guys. Mm.
Of course, it was my first time, too agag agag, you’re the one who’s referring to the word “wild” so you can’t say it’s my first time being wild. It’s my first time exerting that much effort because we were in the middle of so many things. So it seems like you need to think about that. But for me, it’s not an effort anymore.
I just want to do it too. So I don’t know if other people think it’s an effort, but when you’re in love, it’s not that much of an effort, it’s just easy, so what’s the point? Because it’s sincere, natural, and you enjoy doing it because you know it will be fun. the person will smile or I don’t know. He makes an effort, but he’s not natural.
Yes. But since you’re the one who only accepts effort, what was the effort that you appreciated the most when you said yes or no to this comp? He’s so far away, he’s in Laguna, I’m in Antipolo. He drives all the way from Laguna to Antipolo. So that’s how far he drives. Then when he gets there, he’ll pick me up. We’re going to drive somewhere.
- I said, “Wow, this guy spends what? More than 5 hours on the road just to see me. Wow! His effort is huge. But to him, it’s not effort. Of course. This is really [laughs] . Why? Are you still doing it to them ? Of course. Of course, [laughs] you know, it’s something that seems so nice to look back on. Mm. you really are [laughs] hey I’m getting more and more used to it.
[laughs] So what’s been the whole time you’ve been together? What’s the biggest reason you proved to me that you were really important to me that year? There was one time I had one of the most vivid dreams ever in my life. Ah yes, I know this. This is like this. I’m driving. It’s It’s kind of brutal. Vicy.
I don’t know if I was watching the news before sleeping or something but someone held us up. Mm. Where’s Belle’s hold upper, it seems to be there or something in her area Bell. So I really said, don’t shoot her. If you’re going to shoot her, just shoot me. Well, she didn’t want to. That’s how it was with Bell.
So what I did was I just talked to her and talked to her until she shot Bell. She shot me. I really thought that I was shot. And then when I woke up that’s where I was like, “Okay, I would really take a bullet for this girl.” Or then you felt that fear. Yeah. And I felt like what if you were really in that position and that.
So yeah. I think that’s where I really saw the value of how deep our foundation was, right? That. a dream but the experience that really happened to you two that really tested how important you are to each other. Before I answer that, can I say one moment that really um sticks out in terms of like how much I vinue what we have.
When he got CO or was it me? Or no? You were exposed. Mm. She was exposed so she couldn’t leave her house. So what I did was I drove to her house with a sign. Oh yeah, I remember saying um I wish I could hug you like that. Ah, just take a peek outside. I was just there outside, like 15 feet away, and then we just talked. Oh.
That’s one of those romantic things in a movie. Mm. During the pandemic, there were a lot of things like that. A lot of effort went out because we were so desperate to be with the people we loved so much. Mm. When I got covid, Ayon and I only had one house. Then we slept. I stayed in the den because I couldn’t go with her to the room.
The den door wasn’t glass. So she just slept upstairs on the floor. Yeah, it’s like we just had a glass partition so that the two of us could be next to each other . Or when things like that naturally came out because we were so desperate to see people again or be with each other. But that was so sweet. What was it? I wish I could hug you.
Like that? Yes. Or get well soon. That one. Get well soon. Like an air hug. Mm. Or something like that. Yes. Flying hug. Like that. Yes my girl is it time or it’s good that I got covid. I experienced it because I didn’t give a damn because there’s no such effort what I really like about him is what really he values yung I don’t say he doesn’t make effort to him but to me that’s effort.
He really values that as in sobra. So what’s that? What’s the biggest test? The greatest tests of all time. Gone through so many things. Maybe patience. Of course we’re together every day. Of course there are moments when we get tired of each other. Yes. Like that? Of course you always look for that something new.
Is there anything we can do? We’re always together. It’s scary what’s going on now he’s a cycle ‘yung what routine life routine ‘yung ‘yung ‘yung ‘yung you two ‘yung what happened so what should What are we really doing to make things different because you both get bored so you’ll want to be with someone else because you’ll experience something different there. Yeah.
You’ll be more excited about what’s happening when you’re with someone else. So for you to be able to keep that, it should n’t become a routine, it’s just the same thing over and over again . It’s just what you say and hear to each other and it’s just the same thing over and over again .
I think that’s also why we’ve really chosen to keep a lot of our private life super private. Because whatever people don’t really know, they can’t really ruin it. They can’t really talk about. So yeah, that’s why also you know me and Bell really never talk about those kinds of things, for us, it’s like it shouldn’t mix at work because that’s where we really get to know each other in a way that’s not through work .
So that seems so important to us two ‘yun ‘yun yang
‘right? Still gessgess. Don’t want to share. Yeah. When I experienced him like ah that’s why I didn’t share everything because it’s nice to feel like you’re the only one who experienced and knew about those things. Yes. Yeah. That’s why even us when we’re always ask that ba that’s always a question.
What is the real status of Donbell? We’ve been through so much and we have also never revealed anything because you know it’s something that was you know we cherish. It’s something very special to both of us and I think we’ve gone through so much to understand that we mean so much to each other and why will we want other people to still have a say in like whatever it is that happened that is happening like that.
But now at your age now and in maturity you’re both able to see each other as different people. It’s going to be at the start um hard hard and you need to get used to it. Of course because you know you know that you’ve been familiar with something for so long but I think slowly get there. Yes it’s hard at first but I want the world to see your greatness ba. It’s not just for me to experience.
But thinking about it and talking about it now, how does it make you feel? Well, it’s unfamiliar territory. Ba I think that’s why it’s so exciting also. Of course it’s scary, but at the same time, anything goes at this point. And we’re just we just surrender everything to God, you know. We surrender everything to whatever may happen because this is a new path for us and this is something that we just want to go through in this new chapter of our lives, right? Mm. No.
It’s scary of course because you don’t know what’s going to happen next. That’s because we have a sense of familiarity with each other too that I’m used to it okay Tony is there everything’s going to be okay. How did you say that the thought that the other person would be with you like that’s it’s okay I think I’ve come into terms that even if this journey no longer includes me as long as it’s for you and it’s for your growth and it’s the best for you.
I’m okay with it. That’s how I value him, that’s how I value him. Yeah, that’s exactly what I think I told her too. Because there is of course a way for us to do it like we’ve gotten so used to Donbell on and off cam and and all these things we’ve done together that are so out of this world and we always say like we don’t think we would have been able to experience this with anyone else.
We are truly blessed. I experienced a lot for the first time. so many experiences that wow when you look back it’s just like how did that happen is it really great but at the same time we know that the journey’s just begun and there’s still so much more we can go through there are so many questions ahead but the moment we decide that we’re ready to grow we’re ready to go through this next chapter and the most important thing is I’m here if you need me if you if you if you want to talk to some because we’re okay we’re in a great
place you know yeah Um what if one of you says wait I’m not ready. You’re not together because some people don’t always go together Yeah. What if one of you is not ready and the other is ready. Well, that would have been hard. I I don’t know what will happen because of course I hope you’re really in love. Yeah.
But that’s how I know that there’s really love between the two of you because what is he, selfless, right? The selfless thing is hard for me. It hurts me but because it’s good for you and you’ll see if it has a good effect , I will understand it. I will go for you. Mhm. What? That’s how I understand you two.
What really? That’s love. Yeah, I’m just thinking about it. You know, we know each other’s dreams. We know each other’s goals. So, when I see her slowly achieving that, even from afar, I will be super happy and super proud of her. And then there’s this couple I know who got divorced and then it was like her partner said goodbye. She was crying so hard.
I said, “Why didn’t you agree to break up?” She said, “The only way for me to keep him is to let him go.” But you know, that kind of makes sense, ha. Cuz what if by doing that, you save yourselves as friends and you save yourself as still in each other’s lives because it can also turn out the other way that it becomes too toxic or a big issue happens and then you’re gone forever.
Yeah. Both ways. But it hurts. It hurts. okay? What if that’s the best version of you guys that you can still reserve? And in time you will figure out if it was worth it. No, not right away. But those kinds of churches are crazy, I mean, they’re really far away , those churches are like they’re really old,
They question why they are different . They question why they are not together. And it makes them doubt if they love each other or what. So that’s it. It’s normal and it should be okay that you don’t always want to be together. Yeah. Because it also shows you trust each other. It shows that there’s love but at the same time you respect each other’s boundaries.
Respect love should allow each other to grow and experience the world. Oh, Vicy, that’s really the message of our movie. It revolves around a couple who go on a road trip and they made a deal when they started their relationship that if ever it comes to a point that we even feel like we should break up, we’ll go on a road trip first.
We’ll talk about everything. And then at the end of our road trip at the destination, we’ll decide. So that’s what happens in the movie. It’s beautiful. I didn’t expect our teasing to be like this. I guess I’ll just have a little chat with you. you. Then it’s random. As long as you do the interview, we’ll really give it .
Plus it’s great because I feel like the viewers of this are also very excited to listen and then it seems like I’m the one they’re talking about, like we’re talking about. What are you looking forward to in the end? Vice? I want to be touched by the movie by the characters. I want to scream. I wanna I want to laugh cry love m I want to see myself.
Mm. And I’m so excited because your movie is good because of course Tita Cory and Miko have previewed it. So I always ask. It’s great because they always tell me what they think when they preview a movie. They say it’s okay . But this is what they said, Don Bell is great, so congratulations guys. I’m super happy for you all two and super supportive all the way.
And thank you so much for giving me this chance to go on a road trip with you two . Yeah. Thank you so much. I vibes. Yeah. We love you. Yes. I love you you too. And because of that, we’ll go from end to end, we’ll see what mountain we talked about. But I’m really far from where I’m going. I’m already broke here on the road trip, I fell victim to Doni Pangilinan and then Bel Mariano day.
Though I was happy. I didn’t expect it. I’ll see something now, a mountain and then a new church. There’s a rice field here or. And then I saw a lot of happy fiestas. So we really went through a lot. It’s crazy. So there. Thank you guys. Love you. GBG lang. in cir just to make my heart ising
